life coach
To be coached or not to be coached…
Today, after sharing a recent experience, a friend said the most beautiful words to me EVER: “Kristina, you’ve changed!” It was said with so much love and I welcomed the compliment gratefully and without an “awe shucks but…”
No buts about it, I have changed and I am so proud of it too! Life happens, it moulds us, gives us knocks, hardships, joy, love, life lessons, and hopefully, with all of that, we change – for the better once we decide to get ourselves back up!
The past few years, I’ve referred to myself as Kristina 2.0 – I know I’m new & improved (although it’s been discussed I was already pretty darn good). I feel it, I hear it and I see it – most times I can stand triumphantly in my change. I’m not gonna lie though, it’s not always easy!
I’m a constant work in progress – we all are. I’ve been asked the who, what, when and more about some of my life changes. I hate to break it to you, there is no magic pill to swallow, no one could do it for me, I had to be willing to change – I had to take the leap of faith…
As I’ve written about in past blogs, my change began with a friend introducing me to GROOVE – I will be forever grateful for that!! From there, I discovered yoga, meditation and became more open to things I wanted to change about myself. Most of my friends know that when I wholeheartedly love something, I scream about it from the rooftops! I want everyone to drink from the water fountain and experience these life changing opportunities too.
I’d like to share my new passion and while I’ve mentioned before as well, I want to focus on it a bit. Several months ago, while in the depths of grief, life changes in work and personal life, I agreed to start working with a Life Coach. I knew I needed direction, focus and accountability. Wow, am I ever glad I chose to invest in myself like this. She is amazing and I’m not just saying it because she’s also a dear friend, I’m saying it because it’s true! I’m saying it wholeheartedly that this is something worth looking into when you are open and willing to delve into your layers and discover your true self.
Now, it’s not always easy and I don’t want to scare ya, however, sometimes, the work is hard, overwhelming and challenging – I may or may not have delivered a few F-Bombs her way as we do the work! Yet, you want to go back for more – yeah, she’s THAT good! AND IT”S WORTH THE WORK!!!! Without going into the details of coaching and what she does (I encourage you to check out her website here and see if it’s something that would benefit you) it’s been layer after layer of unbelievable, mind blowing discovery of how I got to this point, what drives the decisions I’ve made & will make, what I can do to shine, see my path clearly, be more confident, believe, trust and so much more! She has provided me with the space to change, acknowlege my changes and she’s a dam good cheerleader for your success – so I can even welcome the words, “you’ve changed” cause yeah, baby I sure have and I’m better for it! #coachingsuccess #mysuccess
I wish you endless success, welcome change, love, inspirations and giving yourself a chance to discover YOUR 2.0!
Courage, Coaching & Comfort Zones…
Recently, a friend complemented my courage. I smiled & shrugged it off as nothing. That word has been sitting with me and well, I guess I have my next blog…
When I reflect on the word courage, the first thing that comes to my mind is the lion from The Wizard of Oz. He thought he had no courage and took a very courageous journey down the yellow brick road to ask the wizard for some. Well, I don’t have a yellow brick road to follow however, the journey is no less a task.
Courage, for me, is associated with those who fight for our freedoms; willingly sacrifice their lives so I can live in this amazing county. It’s for those who stand in defiance for causes they believe in. It’s not for little ‘ole me…. or is it?
The definition of courage is “the ability to do something that frightens one,” OR “strength in the face of pain or grief.” So, by this definition, I have to accept my friend’s complement. Now, that’s THE challenge!
A little more than a month ago I started working with a Life Coach. She’s also a friend, she’s amazing and well, to be honest, she’s been pushing me out of my comfort zone for the past 6 years! I keep going back for more lol! During one of our coaching sessions, we spoke about how I felt around this word courage. After my self-defense mechanisms (that’s another blog) were put to rest, I’ve become more open to this word. What if it really could be used to describe me, after all, 2016 has thrown me a slew of hurdles, challenges and pain both personally and professionally. Thanks to a little push, perhaps, just perhaps, I can accept that I have courage. If I follow the definition, then it’s a very applicable word!
~Maybe it takes courage to keep going in my professional life even after it feels I’ve been knocked down a 100 times – I got up 101 times and kept moving forward.
~Maybe it takes courage to walk with grief, sadness & anger with the passing of a loved one.
~Maybe it takes courage to step outta my comfort zone and embrace the changes surrounding me.
~Maybe it takes courage to accept change, be ready for change and most importantly, be willing to change.
~ Maybe it takes courage to put one foot in front of the other when you feel you just can’t walk anymore.
~Maybe it takes courage to let your tribe support you when you need them most.
~Maybe it takes courage to ask for help.
~Maybe it takes courage to share this.
There’s no maybe about it, yes it takes SO much courage and courage is just what I realize I’ve got!
I wish you the confidence to stand strong in your courage, to be strong, to trust you’ve got this, to love wholeheartedly and of course an amazing opportunity to discover YOUR 2.o!